Vibrators for Woman

Few if any vibrators come with instruction manuals. On the one hand, you might think that no manual is necessary -- after all shouldn’t you know how to use a vibrator? But if you’ve never used one, how exactly are you supposed to know how? Most people do manage to stumble their way to pleasure with a vibrator, but if you’re looking for a few helpful hints here is a beginner’s guide for women on how to use a vibrator.

The World Famous Rabbit 

Type of Stimulation it Creates: Many of the vibrators will give both G-spot and clitoris stimulation. Some will do it together like the Rabbit Vibrator. 

Safety Tip: ALWAYS use plenty of lubrication and get in the habit of washing the vibrator before and after use. And get in the habit of taking your batteries out of the vibrator each time you’re finished using it.

Pleasure Usage Tip - Get to know your vibrator.

Play with the buttons and switches and find out how many speeds and settings it has. Wash your vibrator well before using it. If it isn’t waterproof, be careful not to get any water near the battery case.

Start on your own.

Even if you’re planning on using your vibrator with a partner, it’s a good idea to check it out by yourself first. You’ll feel less self-conscious and/or you can really concentrate on how it feels for you without being distracted.

Don’t rush: Explore every Play with the speed and the pressure of the vibrator.

Most vibrators have multiple speed settings (or at least two settings). Always start on a low setting and work your way up. Experiment with applying different pressure. You may enjoy a lot of deep pressure with clitoral stimulation.

With most battery-powered vibrators, the more pressure you apply the lower the vibration feels. Also the stronger you hold your vibrator, the more vibration gets absorbed by your hand. 

Exploring penetration with a vibrator.
Start slow with penetration and get yourself aroused by using the vibrator externally first.

Using your vibrator with a partner.
You can use your vibrator with your partner in any number of ways. You can control the vibe, using it on yourself to add stimulation during sex play with a partner. You can use the vibrator on your partner (or vice versa).

Vibrators for Men

I’ve spoken with thousands of men who had no idea they could use a vibrator. They either thought vibrators only worked on women, or they weren’t for “guys like them.” Once most of these men gave vibrators a chance, they quickly became converts.

The Tickle E Z bend vibe. Multispeed

A lot of the “Do’s” and “Don’t” with a vibrator are the same as above as they are for a woman.

Type of Stimulation it Creates: 

 External anal stimulation.
The anus (the part on the outside that you can see and touch) is rich with nerve endings and usually responds favorably to stimulation. However, a male G-Spot (also known as the milking gland) is just inside the anus. You can use a good G-Spot vibrator like the Tickle E Z bend vibe.

Safety Tip: ALWAYS use plenty of lubrication and get in the habit of washing the vibrator before and after use. And get in the habit of taking your batteries out of the vibrator each time you’re finished using it.

Pleasure Usage Tip:

Prostate massagers
Some vibrators are better suited for prostate massage than others. Vibrators that aren’t too big, and have a gentle curve tend to work well. Some men like the feeling of pressure alone on the prostate and will use a vibrator but keep it turned off.

Penis or Cock Rings are one of the few sex toys made specifically for men. Rings are the popular version of a medical device, called a constriction ring, and while none of the penis rings available on the site come with clinical testing or medical promises, they can be a functional and fun part of sex play for guys.

Just like the Robo Ring by constricting the flow of blood out of the penis, rings can change the way erections feel, how long they last, and what orgasm and ejaculation feels like.

Enjoy Robo strength erections and long lasting pleasure with this wireless vibrating cock ring.

Type of Stimulation it Creates: When the male penis is entered in the vagina it will give clitoral stimulation to the female and when turned upside down the male will have stimulation to his balls. 

Start simple.
Flexible, adjustable rings are recommended for first timers. They are easier to put on and take off, and if you’re not sure how tight you want it, you can make it looser to begin with.

Inspecting the product.
Before you use your penis ring for the first time take it out of the package, wash it well, and then check it out carefully.

Find time to explore.
Even though you may want to use the penis ring with a partner, it’s a good idea to try it on your own the first time. You’ll feel less self-conscious and/or you can really concentrate on how it feels for you without being distracted.

Using solid penis rings.
Some solid rings are made to be put on before you get an erection. The larger rings can be slid down the base of the penis and the testicles and scrotum can gently be pulled through the ring so that it is around the base of the penis and behind the scrotum. As your erection grows the ring will constrict the skin and blood flow.

Using a penis ring with a partner.
Most men want to use rings during sex play with a partner. Once you’re comfortable on your own, you can either use the ring during sex without making a big deal of it, or you can let your partner put the ring on you as part of sex play.

Safety Tip: Penis ring safety.
If you are using a penis ring and you feel pain or discomfort remove the ring immediately. You should not leave a penis ring on for extended periods of time. Most documentation suggests 30 minutes is as long as you should leave a ring on for in one session.

Pleasure Usage Tip:

Try using your ring at the top and bottom of the cock you can also use it off the cock as a vibration for you and your partner.

Sexual Role Play Tips

Choosing Costumes and Props for Fantasy Sexual Role Play.

As adults we don’t get to play nearly enough, and fantasy sexual role play is a perfect opportunity to dress up and have some HOT FUN. Once you’ve decided on who you want to be, where and what you’ll be doing, think about ways to add to your character and role through clothing and props.

To get some idea take a look at our Fantasy Wear section. We have over 60 outfits from a Policewoman to a Naughty Schoolgirl.  If you are feeling a little more adventures take a look at our Leather, Rubber or PVC wear. 

Props and costumes for role play can include:

Clothing and Accessories
From your underwear to your overcoat (and the all important boots and shoes), dress appropriate to your role. You can also change your look with wigs. But most of all HAVE FUN.

HOT FUN Fantasy Tips

    It’s a fantasy, so you can push some boundaries. Try not to pick roles that too closely resemble the regular sex roles you and your partner(s) play out. As much as you can, be experimental playful.

         Expand your mind, as a mind once stretched to new dimensions will never return to the same size again. Remember your sexual role play may not be a person at all. It’s good to spice it up and change who you are tonight. Take charge of who will lead and put the in-trust-meant in your partner to take you on a journey of discovery and possibilities. 

         Remember, it’s a fantasy. Try not to feel embarrassed or ashamed of the roles you want to explore. Wanting to play a bank robber doesn’t mean you are one (or want to be one in real life). Leave reality at the door and your clothes on the floor with your day.

Inexpensive Sex Toys

Recommendations for Sex Toy Fun on a Budget

7" slim fluted multi speed vibe

You don’t have to spend a lot of money to have a lot of fun with sex toys. Inexpensive sex toys don’t deliver less pleasure; they usually just have a shorter lifespan than others. At HOT FUN sex toys we deliver a better quality product even if you’re on a budget. But it's important to note that some, though not all, budget sex toys also have poor design and even dangerous construction. The inexpensive sex toys recommended in this section by HOT FUN meet our HIGH quality and get’s high marks at a low price see (Sex Toys Under 10er).

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 The RocK Chick  
£44.95 - SALE £25.97
The amazing Rock Chick has now been improved and updated with better clitoral stimulation, more flexible silicon and a more powerful bullet. They only G-Spot and Clit Stim toy that every woman should own.

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Adult Paint Box RRP £18.99 - OUR PRICE £11.99
4 Amazing Fruit and drink flavors of paint for you to explore the creative artist in each of you - oh yes and then you can lick it off - great fun for couples.

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Bondage Tape RRP £5.99 – OUR PRICE £4.99 
Bondage Tape. Thin tape which naturally sticks to the skin and can be used creatively in all sorts of bondage game scenarios. Available in black, red, pink or white.

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Waterproof Couples Kit RRP £20.99 SALE £16.99

Lilac waterproof Couples sex toy kit includes 2 cock rings, smooth vibe, vibrating egg and duo balls.

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SALE - Rabbit Cock Ring  SALE £12.99 Vibrating cock ring with rabbit ear clit stimulator. This high tech device is wire free with a simple on off button on the vibrating bullet. The best clit stim and cock ring combination ever. Awesome.

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Remote Butterfly  RRP £49.99 – OUR PRICE £44.99
This Jelly formed remote control wireless butterfly comes with a clitoral stimulator, short penis and anal stimulator to really hit every erogenous spot. Give your partner the remote and will anybody know you are wearing it?